Thursday, 3 October 2013

Ladies..can we talk?

Let me sound like some scientists or maybe researchers "Statistics have proven that 87% of men don't like ladies who wear hair net especially to bed. Well, 8% don't actually mind while the rest don't feel either way.

At the point when I was trying to figure out what exactly their reasons were, I'd sense a few I will like to share. 

*One, the hair-net is ugly, well to them. 

*Two, it covers up the hair you had practically spent a fortune on and the only time they are calm enough to see it and possibly admire it is bed time but hey, "it's all covered"

*Three, it smells. Ladies, we have to be conscious of the smell these hair nets generate. Most times, they might not be dirty but it must have absorb some moisture through sweat and this mixed with dirt and the hair treatments we have on will surely produce an awful, unpleasant smell. Tips: Wash the nets regularly, spread to dry always, especially after each use with a heat temperature hot enough to dry up all the moisture and kill possible germs. You can also apply a little pleasant fragrance on them and that is when they are dry enough so they don't aggravate more uncertain odour. 

*Four, these hair-nets are not attractive. Yes they are firm and protective enough for it's purpose (from the ladies point) but to the men, they are more comfortable seeing and touching the hair texture or pulling each strands than having a restrain. 


*Five, the hair nets comes in not to pleasant colours. They are not fanciful nor classy. Well, they are not meant to complete any dressing but the MEN just don't like it. Most of these hand crochet hair nets are made in solid colours like; black, brown, red and sometimes muilticoloured, looking all razz and tacky. 



Ladies, keep your man close enough with pleasant outlook, even in bed, especially in bed. Who knows, it might just be your magic wand". 

*wink*💝


Guy! Say NO to Red suit.

I got chatting with a friend a while ago and we were talking about men, fashion and their dress sense.  Where I come from in Nigeria, western region to be precise..lol, am old skool; we respect people who wear red clothes as we believe they are traditionalist or herbalist. Respect in all sense of, "give way, there is war". At least I know Sango..god of thunder's favourite clothing is red and he's being known for its "vintage style and trend.


When a guy is all dressed up on a normal day, not an occassion or a fashion show wearing an all red suit with its pant, possibly with a red tie to "style it up... it's a No! No! for me. It's just awkward. Hot blazing red suit for a guy can only attract negative feed backs. Capital NO! It hurts the eye. Do not wear!!!


It's worse when the suit is made with some polyester material that gives it a shiny effect. C'mon... What's on your mind? What exactly are you trying to achieve?  The picture below is what you create in people's mind.



It's not sexy, its' classy, it's just trashy. Do not wear!!!