Sex tips for MEN...

Ok! Lets get started. I've got a few to talk about this mid day as I really wanna hit on you. This is no excuse for where you come from, a man is a man everywhere and that includes, you! The Nigerian man.

Be Romantic!

Nigerian men, please step it up a little. Not just thinking of chocolates and shawarma, but women do like their partners to be thoughtful. "The main complaint is that you guys don't woo us enough. "Kissing - what happened to that?" Men need to build day-to-day intimacies like kissing and touching into everyday life. The kiss am talking about should not be a prelude to sex.  You have to maintain a level of intimacy in general that doesn't always lead to sex."

Be thoughtful towards your partner. It could be as simple as taking her to the salon, dinner dates, carrying her handbag, washing the dishes..hmmm! 

It's good to TALK.

Communication is key when having sex and that includes talking. Some couples find it embarrassing to talk about what they want. It can seem cringe-worthy, but good sex does rely on good communication skills.

You can maybe try two techniques and ask which your partner prefers. You can tune-in to female clues like moaning, grunting and sighing. Some people like dirty talk during sex. Some find it off-putting or laughable. Bottom-line is understand your partner, discuss her fantasies and try to incorporate them into your love-making.

"Sex tastes change. Just because a woman liked sex in a particular way 10 years ago doesn't mean she likes it that way now, or wouldn't mind trying something different. 

Don't chase an Orgasm.

Dear nigerian men, Sex is not a mission. Calm down!  It is not a to-do list either - erection, foreplay, penetration and the main objective - the orgasm. Try understand that Men are usually able to orgasm but many women do not orgasm through penetrative sex alone.

According to a survey I read, just 6% of more that 500 women said they could orgasm from intercourse alone. You need to know that some women don't orgasm at all or hardly ever, and it's not the be-all-and-end-all for them. The important bit is being close and feeling special."

Keep it clean and safe.

You don't want to give her infection as touching is very sensitive to her body. Ensure you was your hands before you fiddle. Don't be too rough and aggressive. All am saying is , when it comes to touching a woman's delicate parts, it’s important to make sure you've washed your hands and I suggest making sure that your fingernails are trimmed short.

Don't bleed her out! Don't leave her sore.

To be continued......!