WIFE MATERIAL... Ladies aired their views.

Personally, I can't stand some of the statements "boys turn men" make when it comes to a lady being a wife material. Only lazy, egocentric, irresponsible men will say things like.... " daddy's duty is to watch TV and read newspaper and mummy's duty is to wash, cook and clean". How can a daddy say this? What a legacy you inculcating in your kids. 

Dear nigerian Men, hear what the women has to say about washing, cleaning and other chores.....

**Mrs Banire says ...To be honest.. my dear sistas, as a woman with lots of life experience, married with 2 kids.. There’s nothn like ‘WIFE MATERIAL’.. trust me der are lots of women wit very bad character, lazy n all but they hve pple dat marry dem! BELIEVE ME!

I remember my mum used 2 always tell me when i ws younger dat she ddnt wash any man’s clothes, cook or clean in any man’s house b4 she got married… The whole trick to finding a good man is to be YOURSELF!!! Don’t go out of your way 2 pls any man.. let him be d one 2 go d extra mile to win your heart, he is the one 2 ask for your hand in marriage. Then when he actually marries you, you take care of him to d best of your ability and trust me he will reciprocate, if he is the right one.. LADIES! you are nt 2 suggest or ask a man 2 marry you! If he doesnt want 2 ask you.. plss keep it moving! Just be who u are n d right persn will cme along.. n will take you for who you are..** 

**Somto says...If it clicks between you and your guy, it won’t matter whether you are a good cleaning lady or a good cook, afterall, you can learn all those. Why bother yourself? Cleaning or taking care of his whole family will not create chemistry or the X-factor in the relationship.

If (as a single babe then) you were waiting for me 2 clean up for you….mcheew, you were so on a long thing..**

**Kofo says...There is no one size fits all. It depends on your personality, and your level of tolerance for dirt. If I met him with a messy house, hell no, I aint cleaning jack, and i’ll let him know right from the start that his place is a mess and I am not comfortable being there, he should either tidy it up or get a cleaning lady. On the flip side if I met him with his house tidy and regularly i can see the place clean and tidy. The day I see a mess i’ll remind him of the mess and we will clean it together. The emphasis on together. I cant date a guy that does not have basic home cleaning abilitites, it says a lot about what he’ll be expecting me to do as wife, and I aint nobody’s mama. Especially in a country where maids are not 2 for 10kobo like 9ja. Hell no, he cant clean his place himself or hire a cleaning lady, i wont go there more than 2ce, and thats it.. Thankfully my boyfriend has OCD, so no problems in that respect. lol**

**Elohor says... Why cant you do the dishes together, especially if she cooks. Even if you cooked, it’ll still be a good idea if you both did the dishes together. All that soap, and water and talking and touching. Tres sweet. It is in the simple things, that a relationship can keep the spark, and a guy can be romantic. U dont need flowers, chocolate and all the rest grand gestures.**

**Nneka says...Study the person you’re with and do accordingly. And of course, don’t forget who you are, if you will cry after doing all that, then stay clear. Left to me, I’ll say don’t play wifey until you’re sure you’ll be a wife.**

Much more to come. Lets hear from you too.